The info you are dying to know about me, lol!

I am an expert in learning the hard way. I have tried so many things searching for happiness and success.

So many of my teachers came from learning the hard way:

– victim mindset
– toxic relationships
– divorce
– depression, anxiety, PTSD
– playing it safe/small
– fear of failure
– fear of wasting my potential
– under-earning
– under-performing
– settling for whatever I could get

fear of getting it wrong,

fear of rejection,

By hitting rock-bottom in 2015-16 at 35 years old I finally took control of my life. Got a divorce, quit my dead-end job (in an epic mic-drop fashion), went to work studying how to “fix” myself.

How to heal my brain, gain control over my emotions and life, learn how to create success for myself.

I did just that.

I read You Are A Badass At Making Money by Jen Sincero and she kept saying highly successful people have coaches. I had never heard of coaching. I searched and found The Life Coach School podcast and my mind was blown 🤯. It felt like Brooke Castillo revealed the secrets of the universe to me.

I have never looked back since then. I have hired multiple coaches since then. Business coach, a 1 on 1 coach, a Time Hacker coach, invested in marketing and sales courses, and a positive intelligence course. I have found mentors that make 8 figures a year. All of this I now teach my clients.

I began creating success after success, achieving goal after goal.

Today I live the life my 5 years ago self only dreamed of.

I have financial and time freedom.

I do work that lights my soul up.

I take 4 vacations a year.

I get to buy nice, luxurious things.

I help people blow their own minds and change their lives in ways they only dreamed of.

I love myself and love the humans around me so much better!

Neurochemicals were the acceleration piece!

When Dr. Carmen said you have to have an adequate amount of serotonin to have self-confidence and rejection resilience the light bulb went off! The Greats had enough serotonin to help them have more thoughts that feed that belief and reduced the blow of rejection.

The massively successful (Jeff Bazos, Henry Ford, Elon Musk, Brooke Castillo) could move forward faster and with more ease. Versus a person that their neurochemicals/hormones are unbalanced, we can do thought work all do and slowly limp forward.

When we balance the neurochemicals and create better neuropathways the ability to achieve goals, fulfill our dreams, feel better and be happier skyrockets!

Who I am as a Coach.

First, I am an Enneagram 8, a CrossFitter and intensely caring and aggressively helpful!

I cuss a lot.

I am an entrepreneur at heart and have a very special place for entrepreneurs and that journey!

With 27 years of coaching, a Masters’s degree in Counseling, coaching hundreds of hours, and numerous clients. I help people feel better and create success in their lives they have only dreamed of.

I don’t let my clients keep their bullshit.

I hold belief in my client and their dreams fiercely until they develop it.

I am not a cheerleader or their accountability partner. None of this repeat affirmations, fake it until you make it, set a goal, and now I am just your accountability partner stuff.

I celebrate the wins, and I get curious about why they aren’t doing what they say they want to do.

I don’t want to be my clients source of validation, I want them to become their source.

We take ownership over our lives and take full responsibility for it all. We will not play the victim anymore, nor will we give away our power.

We own our lives and our results and go to work healing our relationship with ourselves so we can create the life we desire.

We do this work because we owe it to ourselves.

This is life-changing work, it will change everything in your life.

Trust me, it did mine and all my clients. Your relationships, health, career, business and ability to make more money will change. How is that? Our thoughts create our reality.

Change your thoughts change your reality.